Why I Do Not Agree with Divorce

John Lloyd S. Galorpot

Grade 12 - Sartre

I believe marriage is more than just a piece of paper — it is a sacred and lifelong promise. When two people marry, they are choosing to face life together, not only during the happiest times but also through struggles and challenges. For me, divorce may seem like an easy way out, but it often causes more harm than healing.

First, marriage is a serious commitment. It is not simply a contract signed in front of a lawyer, but a promise often made in front of family, friends, and even God. That means standing by each other no matter what life brings. Every relationship has problems, but real love is about working through those challenges together, not running away when things get tough. To me, giving up through divorce weakens the true meaning of marriage.

Second, divorce can hurt children deeply. This is one of the biggest reasons I do not agree with it. When parents separate, children often feel lost, sad, and even guilty, thinking that they are somehow to blame. Their sense of security is shaken, and this can affect not only their confidence but also the way they view relationships when they grow older. Instead of protecting children, divorce often leaves them with wounds that take years to heal.

Lastly, I believe most problems can be worked through. Stress, financial struggles, or poor communication are common issues, but they are not impossible to fix. With patience, effort, forgiveness, and understanding, couples can overcome these struggles. No one is perfect, and every marriage requires sacrifice. Choosing to stay and work things out can make the relationship stronger in the long run.

In conclusion, I do not agree with divorce because it goes against the true meaning of marriage. Marriage is a promise that should be honored, even in difficult times. It should protect not only the couple but also the children who depend on them. Problems will always be part of life, but with love, faith, and determination, they can be solved without breaking the family apart. For me, divorce is not the answer — commitment, patience, and love are.